Jealousy and insecurity in relationships

Jealousy and insecurity in relationships

Jealousy and insecurity are very destructive forces. Even those who develops usually seen as relatively sometimes suffer from this disease of jealousy, and then all around them suffer. Where does it come from? What can you do? Can understand the spirit of much help if you're the one who is jealous or someone else who is suffering from jealousy.

The mind is like a computer that connects the soul with the world. It consists of two main parts, the higher and lower mind spirit. The higher mind is a direct connection to the soul, while the lower mind is the direct link to the five senses that feed the world. Since the higher purity of mind is not disturbed even by opposite thoughts and feelings. But the lower mind is a whirlwind. Let me share with you a story that help illustrate what happens to the soul when it comes to the world.

There was once a prince who lived in a combination of a beautiful building, surrounded by high walls. The marriage was relatively large, ranging from hundreds of acres. With all the luxury, the prince had never met the suffering connected with the world outside the walls. His life was perfect in every way. But one day came as a result of boredom I had the idea to go out to see the world as it was. Although his father knew of his plans, he knew his son had to learn for yourself what the world was and he did not want to interfere.

The son / prince, he thinks was very smart, has opted for a cool evening in order to support his plan. He exchanged clothes with his servant, and slipped through an unguarded door to the outside world. While the streets you see all the places that a lot of laughter from a tavern to have their say. Out of curiosity he went with a big smile on her innocent face. Once inside, he was immediately regarded as a traveler and the ship was processed immediately "real" foreign bids on the lawn of repeat customers. It was received warmly, as if it were an old friend and he had drink after drink.

The next thing she remembered was waking up in the eaves of the prince with a huge headache. All of her was gone, his hair a mess and smelled nothing like the prince was yesterday. The headache that had replaced his memory, and had no idea who he was. From there we wandered around the city trying to remember who he was and why he was so hungry and dirty. Some people gave him dirty looks and rude avoided him, while others threw a few coins more charities.

A few days later, while we are accustomed to his surroundings, has become so well he was treated in a public toilet, looking for a job. Within months he had got a good job and slowly began to learn as a shoemaker to act.

Now the father wanted his son. Then he sent his most loyal noble to see. Soon he found the noble, but he could not believe his eyes when he saw that the prince to work in a modest shop. The gentleman walked up to him, but did not recognize the Prince. The noble has gone to great lengths to remind the Prince that he was about to inform, but to no avail. When the nobleman repeated the incident to the King was told to go back and convince his son of his true nature

This is an example of the state of the soul. We are lost and has lost his memory. But of course we are perfect, and only temporarily confused. Our mind collects all kinds of habits and destructive tendencies. But we are not our thoughts, we have an open mind. And it is to remind us that temporary negative traits such as jealousy or anger parasitic appendage rather than who or what we are. Identify, select attacks of jealousy as intrusion of us we are to reject it and pushed her away. Furthermore, when a loved one from one of these bad attacker, rather than being attacked feel defensive or victims, we can assume that the qualities of compassion and wait for the fight of our loved ones.

Never think of jealousy as a part of you or anyone else. Jealousy, like other unwanted intruders can be pushed by the owner of the Spirit.

Tell us about your loved one always there for them and tell them your heart is with the deepest simplicity. "I love you"
Jealousy and insecurity in relationships